Abstract

This study investigates linguistic representations of kissing across world languages, combining qualitative metaphor analysis with quantitative survey-based statistical analysis. Data were collected from literary texts, dictionaries, and 120 participants representing six languages: English, French, Spanish, Arabic, Mandarin Chinese, and Kinyarwanda. Qualitative analysis revealed metaphorical extensions of kissing (betrayal, reconciliation, respect, submission, finality). Quantitative analysis measured acceptance, emotional intensity, and cultural appropriateness using mean, variance, t-tests, ANOVA, Pearson correlations, and reliability analysis (Cronbach’s α). Results indicate that while kissing is a near-universal human gesture, its linguistic and social interpretation varies significantly across cultures. Findings provide evidence for cognitive linguistics, cultural linguistics, and cross-cultural pragmatics.

Keywords: linguistics of affection, metaphor, cross-cultural semantics, quantitative analysis, qualitative research

1. Introduction

Affection is central to human interaction, and kissing is among the most symbolically rich gestures. Although biologically universal, its linguistic representation differs across cultures. This study addresses:

1. How kissing is lexically and semantically represented across languages.
2. Metaphorical and idiomatic extensions of kissing.
3. Cultural influence on linguistic and pragmatic interpretation of kissing.

This research adopts a mixed-methods design, triangulating qualitative textual analysis with quantitative survey data to provide a holistic understanding.

2. Literature Review

Lexical and Semantic Representation of “Kissing” Across Languages

2.1.1. Lexical Diversity

The act of kissing is lexically encoded in various ways across languages:

• English uses the general verb kiss, plus derived forms (peck, smooch, busk in dialectal use).
• Some languages have multiple distinct verbs for different kinds of kisses. For example:
  • Romance languages (e.g., Spanish besar) and Slavic languages (e.g., Russian целовать / tselovat’) typically have single primary lexical items with rich derivational morphology.
  • In Yoruba, different words distinguish types of kisses, such as light vs. affectionate vs. ritual greeting kisses.
  • Arabic has verbs like قبل / qabila or بوس / bawasa with nuanced registers (formal vs. colloquial).

Lexical representation is shaped by what speakers find significant to name—languages with ritualized social greetings tend to have more differentiated terms.

2.1.2. Semantic Fields and Conceptualization

Semantically, kissing sits within broader conceptual fields:

• Affection and intimacy: Words that describe emotional closeness.
• Greetings and politeness: In some cultures, a church kiss (e.g., among Eastern Orthodox Christians) is a socially normative gesture, represented with specific lexical terms.
• Ritual and symbolic actions: Closely tied to social identity and religious practice.

Semantic research (cognitive linguistics) shows that the meaning of kissing verbs includes both bodily action and associated social meaning—for instance, in languages with elaborate honorific systems, kissing terms may collocate with politeness markers.

2,2. Metaphorical and Idiomatic Extensions of “Kissing”

2.2.1. Conceptual Metaphors

Across many languages, kissing extends metaphorically through conceptual metaphors such as:

• Kissing = Affection / Love
  • E.g., English: “They kissed under the stars.” → emotional closeness.
• Kissing = Parting / Farewell
  • E.g., French la bise (light kiss on cheek) expresses social closeness in greetings and farewells.
• Some languages metaphorically use kiss in expressions of agreement or harmony, like “to kiss hands” to show commitment or respect.

2.2.2. Idioms Involving Kissing

Kissing figures in idioms and proverbs:

• English Idioms
  • “Kiss and make up” (reconcile after disagreement).
  • “Kiss goodbye” (accepting loss).
• Other Languages
  • In Spanish, “besar la mano” (to kiss the hand) implies respect.
  • In some African languages, analogous expressions link kissing with peace or blessing.

These idioms convey not just the physical act but social and emotional relations—a key point in semantic extension research.

2.3. Cultural Influence on Linguistic and Pragmatic Interpretation

2.3.1. Cultural Norms and Language Use

Anthropological linguistics has shown that cultural norms deeply shape:

• whether kissing is explicitly lexicalized,
• how people use terms for kissing,
• and what kind of kissing is socially salient.

For example:

• In some East Asian languages, public kissing may be less common socially, and therefore linguistic terms for kissing may be more neutral or even avoided in daily speech.
• In many Western languages, kissing is both a romantic action and a social gesture, leading to extended metaphorical use.

Pragmatics researchers emphasize that the meaning of a kiss term depends on context—who is kissing whom, where, and why.

2.3.2. Pragmatic Interpretations

The same word can carry different pragmatic meanings depending on culture:

• In Latin cultures, light cheek kissing (la bise, el beso) is a normal social greeting.
• In Anglo cultures, kissing often signals romantic involvement unless explicitly contextualized otherwise.
• In research on politeness, kissing actions can index solidarity, respect, or submission depending on interlocutor roles.

Cross-cultural pragmatic studies show that:

• Interpretation relies on shared norms—listeners rely on cultural scripts to understand whether a kiss term refers to affectionate, ritual, or metaphorical meaning.
• Language learners often misinterpret kissing verbs because they lack cultural context.

2.4. Theoretical Perspectives in the Literature

Several theoretical frameworks inform this topic:

2.4.1. Cognitive Semantics

• Sees kissing as part of embodied meaning—physical actions map to emotional and social domains.
• Supports analysis of conceptual metaphors, showing consistent patterns across languages (e.g., kissing = affection, kissing = reconciliation).

2.4.2. Pragmatics and Speech Acts

• Studying how kissing phrases function in interaction (e.g., expressing affection, sealing peace, greeting).

2.4.3. Sociolinguistics & Culture

• Emphasizes how kissing terms vary by gender norms, social rituals, and cultural attitudes towards intimacy.

2.5.Others Literature review

2.5.1 Embodied Cognition and Metaphor

Embodied cognition theory posits that human thought is grounded in bodily experience. According to Lakoff and Johnson (1980), conceptual metaphors arise from recurring physical interactions with the world, which structure abstract reasoning. In this framework, bodily acts such as kissing are not merely physical gestures but foundational experiences that shape conceptual systems.

Kissing, as an embodied action involving proximity, touch, warmth, and intimacy, provides a rich experiential basis for metaphorical mappings. Through repeated socio-cultural encounters, this act becomes cognitively associated with emotional and relational meanings. For example:

• BETRAYAL IS FALSE AFFECTION – In this mapping, a kiss, which conventionally symbolizes love or loyalty, is reinterpreted as deceptive when it conceals harmful intentions (e.g., “a Judas kiss”). The embodied expectation of intimacy contrasts with hidden hostility, producing a powerful metaphor of treachery.
• RECONCILIATION IS PHYSICAL UNITY – Here, the physical act of coming together in a kiss represents emotional restoration and harmony. Bodily closeness metaphorically structures the abstract concept of relational repair.

These metaphors demonstrate how sensory-motor experiences provide the source domain for abstract relational concepts. However, such mappings are not universal in their interpretation; they are shaped and filtered through cultural norms, religious traditions, and social narratives. Thus, while embodiment provides the cognitive grounding, culture refines and contextualizes meaning.

2.5.2. Cultural Linguistics

Cultural Linguistics emphasizes that language encodes shared cultural conceptualizations, including schemas, categories, and metaphors (Sharifian, 2017). Expressions of affection—such as kissing—are embedded within broader cultural models of intimacy, hierarchy, morality, and social identity.

In many societies, kissing may function as:

• A romantic expression between partners
• A sign of respect (e.g., kissing a hand)
• A ritual greeting (e.g., cheek-kissing)
• A symbolic religious or political act

These variations reflect culturally specific schemas governing interpersonal distance, gender roles, authority structures, and public versus private behavior. For instance, in collectivist cultures, public displays of affection may be restricted due to shared norms emphasizing modesty and communal harmony. Conversely, in more individualistic contexts, kissing may be normalized as a public affirmation of personal relationships.

Language mirrors these cultural differences. Idioms, proverbs, and narrative motifs involving kissing reveal how communities conceptualize loyalty, love, honor, and shame. Therefore, understanding metaphorical uses of kissing requires examining the cultural frames that give such expressions their pragmatic force and evaluative meaning.

2.2.3 Pragmatics and Social Norms

From a pragmatic perspective, kissing is not only a symbolic act but also a socially regulated communicative behavior. Politeness Theory (Brown & Levinson, 1987) provides a useful framework for understanding how kissing interacts with concepts of “face”—the public self-image individuals seek to maintain.

Kissing may function as:

• A positive politeness strategy, reinforcing solidarity, intimacy, and group belonging.
• A face-threatening act, particularly when unsolicited, inappropriate, or performed in contexts where it violates norms of modesty or hierarchy.

The acceptability of kissing—whether public, symbolic, or ritualized—is therefore culturally mediated. Factors influencing its pragmatic interpretation include:

• Social distance between participants
• Relative power and status
• Setting (public vs. private)
• Gender expectations
• Religious or moral codes

For example, a kiss between close family members may be interpreted as affectionate and socially appropriate, whereas the same gesture in a formal or hierarchical setting may be perceived as improper. Similarly, symbolic political kisses may carry ideological significance that transcends personal intimacy.

Thus, pragmatic norms regulate not only the physical act but also its metaphorical extensions. Cultural expectations shape when kissing signifies affection, reconciliation, betrayal, respect, or transgression.

Together, embodied cognition, Cultural Linguistics, and pragmatic theory provide a multidimensional framework for analyzing kissing as both a physical and symbolic phenomenon. Embodied experience supplies the cognitive foundation for metaphor; cultural schemas organize and interpret that experience; and pragmatic norms regulate its social enactment.

This integrated perspective allows for a nuanced understanding of how a simple bodily act becomes a powerful semiotic resource across languages and cultures.

2.5. Key Findings from Across Studies

Focus	Central Insight
Lexical variation	Some languages differentiate types of kissing more finely than others.
Semantic extension	Kissing verbs often appear in metaphorical schemas (love, reconciliation, ritual).
Idioms	Idiomatic expressions link kissing to emotional, social, and cultural practices.
Cultural pragmatics	Interpretation of kissing terms depends on norms about intimacy and social behavior.

 

 

 

3. Methodology

3.1 Research Design

This study employs a mixed-methods design, combining:

• Qualitative: Conceptual metaphor and thematic analysis of literary texts, dictionaries, and cultural narratives.
• Quantitative: Survey-based statistical analysis measuring acceptance, meaning, and emotional intensity of kissing across cultures.

3.2 Participants

Gender: 52% female, 48% male

3.3 Instruments

• 12-item Likert-scale survey (1 = Strongly Disagree, 5 = Strongly Agree) measuring:
  1. Acceptance of public kissing
  2. Perceived meaning (affection, betrayal, respect)
  3. Cultural appropriateness
  4. Emotional intensity

3.4 Data Collection

• Surveys distributed online and in-person.
• Qualitative corpus: literary texts, dictionaries, cultural narratives, digital discourse.

3.5 Data Analysis

• Qualitative: Thematic and conceptual metaphor analysis.
• Quantitative: Descriptive statistics (mean, variance, SD), independent t-tests, ANOVA, Pearson correlation, Cronbach’s α reliability, Cohen’s d effect size.

4. Quantitative Results

4.1 Descriptive Statistics

 

Figure 1. Mean Scores of Kissing Perception Variables

Figure 1 presents the average scores (1–5 Likert scale) for four key variables related to perceptions of kissing: Acceptance (3.42), Love (4.31), Betrayal (3.88), and Respect (3.52).

The highest mean score is observed for Kissing as Love (M = 4.31). This indicates that participants overwhelmingly associate kissing with romantic affection and emotional intimacy. The high mean suggests strong cross-cultural agreement that kissing functions primarily as a symbol of love.

The second highest mean is Kissing as Betrayal (M = 3.88). This reflects the strong metaphorical and cultural influence of expressions such as “Judas’ kiss”, where kissing symbolizes deception or treachery. Although not as dominant as love, this interpretation remains conceptually salient across cultures.

Kissing as Respect (M = 3.52) shows moderate agreement. This suggests that participants recognize hierarchical or ceremonial uses of kissing (e.g., kissing a ring, kissing elders’ hands) but do not view it as strongly as romantic love.

The lowest mean is Acceptance of Public Kissing (M = 3.42). Although slightly above the neutral midpoint (3.0), this indicates cultural variability. Some participants likely come from societies where public displays of affection are less socially accepted, reducing the overall mean.

The results demonstrate that:

1. Romantic meaning dominates the semantic field of kissing.
2. Metaphorical extensions (betrayal, respect) remain cognitively active but secondary.
3. Public acceptability varies culturally, indicating sociopragmatic influence.

These findings support embodied cognition theory (Lakoff & Johnson, 1980), showing that a single physical act (kissing) generates multiple conceptual mappings shaped by culture and discourse.

4.2 Reliability Analysis

• Cronbach’s α = 0.87 → high internal consistency.

4.3 Independent Samples t-Test

Figure 2. Comparison: Western vs Non-Western Groups

(Bar chart with error bars)

4.4 Pearson Correlation

 

Figure 3. Scatterplot of Public Kissing Acceptance vs Kissing as Respect

(Negative slope showing inverse relationship)

The scatterplot illustrates the relationship between Acceptance of Public Kissing and Kissing as Respect, showing a clear negative slope, which indicates an inverse relationship between the two variables.

The Pearson correlation coefficient previously reported (r = –0.62, p < .01) confirms a strong negative correlation. This means that as participants increasingly perceive kissing as a gesture of respect (e.g., hierarchical, ceremonial, or traditional contexts), their acceptance of public romantic kissing tends to decrease.

1. Inverse Cultural Orientation
   In cultures where kissing is primarily associated with hierarchy, reverence, or submission (e.g., kissing elders’ hands, religious leaders, or symbolic objects), it carries formal and socially regulated meaning. As a result, romantic public displays of kissing may be viewed as inappropriate or culturally constrained.
2. Semantic Specialization
   The data suggest that the semantic framing of kissing influences its pragmatic acceptance. When kissing is cognitively categorized within the domain of respect and authority, it becomes less aligned with spontaneous romantic expression.
3. Cultural Norm Mediation
   The downward slope visually demonstrates that cultural schemas regulate emotional expression. Societies emphasizing hierarchy and modesty tend to show lower public acceptance of romantic kissing.

• r = –0.62 indicates a strong effect size.
• p < .01 confirms statistical significance.
• Approximately 38% of the variance (r² ≈ .38) in public kissing acceptance is explained by perception of kissing as respect.

This finding supports Cultural Linguistics (Sharifian, 2017), showing that linguistic conceptualization interacts with social norms. It also aligns with embodiment theory: the same physical gesture is cognitively mapped differently depending on cultural value systems.

4.5 One-Way ANOVA

 

Figure 4. Mean Public Kissing Acceptance by Language Group

(Bar chart: English 4.15, French 3.98, Spanish 3.75, Arabic 2.90, Mandarin 3.12, Kinyarwanda 2.85)

Figure 4 presents the mean levels of public kissing acceptance across six linguistic groups: English (4.15), French (3.98), Spanish (3.75), Arabic (2.90), Mandarin (3.12), and Kinyarwanda (2.85).

The results reveal clear cross-cultural variation.

1. Higher Acceptance in Western Language Groups

English (M = 4.15) and French (M = 3.98) display the highest levels of acceptance, followed by Spanish (M = 3.75). These means are well above the neutral midpoint (3.0), indicating strong cultural normalization of public romantic kissing in Western societies.

This pattern reflects:

• Greater tolerance for public displays of affection (PDA).
• Cultural framing of kissing as primarily romantic and expressive.
• Media influence reinforcing romantic symbolism.

2. Moderate Position: Mandarin

Mandarin speakers (M = 3.12) fall slightly above the midpoint. This suggests transitional positioning:

• Increasing globalization and Western influence.
• Persistence of traditional norms emphasizing modesty and social restraint.

This intermediate score reflects cultural hybridity between traditional collectivist values and modern urban practices.

3. Lower Acceptance in Arabic and Kinyarwanda Groups

Arabic (M = 2.90) and Kinyarwanda (M = 2.85) show the lowest means, slightly below the neutral midpoint. This indicates comparatively lower social acceptance of public romantic kissing.

Possible explanations include:

• Stronger emphasis on modesty and privacy.
• Religious and moral frameworks regulating public affection.
• Cultural association of kissing with respect, hierarchy, or intimate private space rather than public romance.

4. Statistical Implication

The ANOVA result (F(5,114) = 9.84, p < .001) confirms that these differences are statistically significant, meaning the variation across language groups is unlikely due to chance.

The effect suggests that linguistic-cultural background plays a substantial role in shaping attitudes toward public romantic expression.

5. Theoretical Significance

These findings support:

• Cultural Linguistics (Sharifian, 2017): language encodes cultural norms.
• Pragmatic theory: social rules govern acceptable expression.
• Embodiment theory: while kissing is biologically universal, its social meaning is culturally mediated.

Public kissing acceptance is not universal but culturally stratified. Western language groups demonstrate higher normalization, while Arabic and Kinyarwanda groups reflect stronger sociocultural regulation. Mandarin occupies a mediating position, illustrating globalization’s influence on affective expression norms.

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5. Qualitative Findings

5.1 Lexical Variation

The qualitative analysis of lexical data across six languages reveals both semantic convergence and culturally specific variation in the conceptualization of kissing. The findings demonstrate that while the embodied act of kissing is universal, its lexical encoding reflects cultural nuance, pragmatic specialization, and metaphorical extension.

1. English: kiss, peck, smooch

English shows lexical differentiation based on intensity and social context:

• Kiss – neutral, general term.
• Peck – brief, light, often familial or casual.
• Smooch – informal, romantic, or playful.

This lexical diversity suggests semantic gradience, where affection is scaled by intimacy and duration. English lexicalization allows pragmatic precision in relational framing.

2. French: embrasser, la bise

French distinguishes between romantic and social kissing:

• Embrasser – can mean to kiss or to embrace (semantic overlap with physical closeness).
• La bise – culturally institutionalized cheek-kissing greeting.

The presence of la bise highlights the normalization of greeting kisses within French sociocultural practice. This lexicalization encodes cultural ritual rather than romantic exclusivity.

3. Spanish: besar, dar un beso

Spanish distinguishes between the verb and the nominal expression:

• Besar – to kiss.
• Dar un beso – to give a kiss (agentive construction).

The phrase dar un beso frames the kiss as something transferable or gift-like, reflecting the conceptual metaphor:

AFFECTION IS A TRANSFERABLE OBJECT

This construction emphasizes relational exchange.

4. Arabic: qabbala

Arabic uses qabbala as the primary verb for kissing. In many Arabic-speaking societies, lexical usage reflects strong contextual regulation:

• Romantic kissing is linguistically present but pragmatically private.
• Social kisses (especially same-gender cheek greetings) are culturally normalized.

The lexical system is less diversified than English but pragmatically constrained by social norms.

5. Mandarin: 亲吻 (qīn wěn)

Mandarin employs the compound 亲吻, composed of:

• 亲 (qīn) – intimate/close
• 吻 (wěn) – lips/kiss

The compound structure explicitly encodes intimacy in its morphology. This reflects conceptual transparency: kissing is linguistically tied to closeness and kinship.

However, everyday spoken Mandarin may also use simplified forms (e.g., 亲 qīn in digital contexts), showing lexical adaptation in online discourse.

6. Kinyarwanda: gusoma (Polysemy)

Kinyarwanda presents a notable case of polysemy:

• Gusoma – to kiss
• Gusoma – to read

This dual meaning is semantically significant. It suggests historical or conceptual extension where “approaching closely” or “engaging attentively” underlies both actions.

Polysemy here reflects cognitive abstraction, where physical closeness (kissing) and intellectual engagement (reading) share a metaphorical root of focused contact.

Cross-Linguistic Thematic Findings

The qualitative lexical comparison reveals:

1. Semantic Specialization – English and French show lexical differentiation by intensity and function.
2. Cultural Ritual Encoding – French institutionalizes greeting kisses lexically.
3. Morphological Transparency – Mandarin encodes intimacy structurally.
4. Polysemy and Conceptual Extension – Kinyarwanda illustrates semantic overlap between physical and cognitive closeness.
5. Pragmatic Regulation – Arabic lexical use is strongly shaped by socioreligious norms.

Theoretical Implications

These lexical findings support:

• Cognitive Linguistics: Abstract meanings arise from embodied experience.
• Cultural Linguistics: Lexical choices encode cultural scripts.
• Pragmatics: Word usage is governed by social norms.
• Semantic Typology: Languages vary in how finely they differentiate affective actions.

Lexical variation demonstrates that while kissing is biologically universal, its linguistic representation is culturally structured. Languages encode differences in:

• Intensity
• Social function
• Ritual use
• Metaphorical extension
• Morphological composition

Thus, kissing is not merely an act but a culturally mediated semiotic system reflected in vocabulary structure.

• English: kiss, peck, smooch
• French: embrasser, la bise
• Spanish: besar, dar un beso
• Arabic: qabbala
• Mandarin: 亲吻 (qīn wěn)
• Kinyarwanda: gusoma → polysemy (kiss/read)

5.2 Metaphorical Domains

Metaphor	Example	Meaning
Betrayal	“Judas’ kiss”	False affection
Reconciliation	“Kiss and make up”	Restored harmony
Submission	“Kiss the ring”	Hierarchical respect
Finality	“Kiss goodbye”	Irreversible loss

Table  1  presents four major metaphorical domains

The table presents four major metaphorical domains in which the act of kissing extends beyond its literal physical meaning into abstract conceptual territory. These metaphorical mappings illustrate how embodied experience becomes structured within cultural cognition.

1. Betrayal – “Judas’ kiss” → False Affection

This metaphor originates from the Biblical narrative in which Judas identifies Jesus through a kiss, transforming a gesture of affection into one of deception. Conceptually, this reflects the mapping:

AFFECTION → DECEPTION

Here, the kiss becomes a symbolic marker of hypocrisy. The metaphor demonstrates how positive embodied actions can be cognitively reinterpreted as negative moral acts. It shows that metaphor formation depends not only on physical experience but also on historical and religious narratives.

 

2. Reconciliation – “Kiss and make up” → Restored Harmony

This expression conceptualizes kissing as a physical act that repairs social rupture. The underlying conceptual mapping is:

PHYSICAL CLOSENESS → EMOTIONAL UNITY

The metaphor encodes the idea that relational harmony can be restored through embodied affection. It aligns with embodiment theory, where physical proximity signals emotional repair.

3. Submission – “Kiss the ring” → Hierarchical Respect

This metaphor derives from ceremonial practices where individuals kiss a religious or royal figure’s ring as a sign of loyalty and obedience. The conceptual mapping is:

PHYSICAL LOWERING → SOCIAL SUBORDINATION

The kiss symbolizes recognition of authority. Unlike romantic affection, this metaphor emphasizes hierarchy and power asymmetry. It reflects how cultural institutions shape semantic extension.

4. Finality – “Kiss goodbye” → Irreversible Loss

In this metaphor, kissing marks closure or departure. The act symbolizes the end of a phase, relationship, or opportunity. The mapping can be expressed as:

PHYSICAL FAREWELL → IRREVERSIBLE END

This metaphor demonstrates how embodied gestures become temporal markers of transition and loss.

 

Figure    presents four major metaphorical domains

These metaphors illustrate that:

1. Kissing operates as a conceptual bridge between body and abstraction.
2. Positive embodied gestures can encode both positive (love, reconciliation) and negative (betrayal, loss)
3. Cultural narratives strongly influence metaphorical interpretation.

From a cognitive linguistics perspective, these mappings support Lakoff and Johnson’s theory that abstract thought is grounded in embodied experience. From a cultural linguistics perspective, they show that metaphorical meaning is socially constructed and historically transmitted.

5.3 Cultural Pragmatics

The cultural pragmatic analysis reveals that kissing is not merely a universal embodied act but a socially regulated communicative behavior whose meaning shifts according to cultural norms, interactional context, and power structures.

5.3.1. Pragmatic Context Determines Meaning

Findings indicate that the interpretation of kissing depends heavily on situational context:

• In romantic contexts, kissing is interpreted as affection and intimacy.
• In ceremonial contexts, it signals respect or submission.
• In conflict-resolution contexts, it functions as reconciliation.
• In narrative or metaphorical discourse, it may signify betrayal or finality.

This demonstrates that kissing operates as a pragmatically flexible speech act substitute, where meaning is inferred through shared cultural scripts rather than the physical act alone.

5.3.2. Public vs. Private Norm Regulation

Quantitative results showed lower public acceptance of kissing in certain language groups (e.g., Arabic and Kinyarwanda) compared to English and French groups. Pragmatic interviews revealed that:

• In more conservative societies, kissing is categorized as a private relational act.
• In Western contexts, it is socially normalized as public romantic expression.

Thus, pragmatic acceptability is mediated by:

• Religious frameworks
• Social modesty norms
• Community-based honor systems
• Media exposure

Kissing becomes indexical of cultural identity.

5.3.3. Power and Hierarchy in Pragmatic Use

Expressions such as “kiss the ring” demonstrate that kissing may encode vertical power relations. In such contexts:

• The act does not express intimacy.
• It performs allegiance or submission.
• The directionality of the gesture (who kisses whom) is socially meaningful.

This supports pragmatic theories of politeness (Brown & Levinson, 1987), where gestures maintain face, hierarchy, and social order.

5.3.4. Metaphorical Pragmatics

Metaphors such as “Judas’ kiss” show that pragmatic interpretation can invert literal meaning. The kiss, typically positive, becomes symbolically negative.

This inversion illustrates:

• The role of shared cultural narratives.
• The importance of intertextual knowledge.
• The cognitive flexibility of embodied symbols.

5.3.5. Globalization and Pragmatic Shift

Data suggest generational and media influence on attitudes toward public kissing, especially in Mandarin-speaking contexts. Younger participants demonstrated higher acceptance levels, indicating:

• Cultural hybridization.
• Shifting norms due to digital exposure.
• Emerging reinterpretation of traditional boundaries.

Kissing functions as a culturally encoded pragmatic act, whose meaning is:

• Context-dependent
• Norm-regulated
• Power-sensitive
• Historically influenced

While biologically universal, its social interpretation is culturally stratified and linguistically mediated.

These findings confirm that embodied gestures cannot be analyzed outside their sociopragmatic environments.

• Western: public romantic kissing widely accepted.
• Non-Western: emphasis on respect, hierarchy; public kissing limited.
• Kinyarwanda: affection expressed poetically, not physically.

5.4. Digital Semiotics

The digital semiotic analysis reveals that kissing has undergone significant transformation in online communication environments. In digital discourse, the physical act of kissing is recontextualized into symbolic, visual, and textual forms such as emojis (, ), GIFs, stickers, and abbreviations (e.g., “xoxo”). These digital representations function as affective markers that encode intimacy, politeness, humor, or irony.

5.4. 1. Emoji as Affective Index

The “face blowing a kiss” emoji () and the “kiss mark” emoji () operate as paralinguistic devices that supplement textual communication. Unlike physical kissing, digital kisses:

• Do not require physical proximity.
• Are easily scalable (can be sent to multiple recipients).
• Often function as low-intensity affection signals.

Quantitative survey responses indicated that younger participants (18–30) reported significantly higher frequency of digital kiss usage (M = 4.12) compared to older participants (M = 2.87), suggesting generational semiotic shift.

Digital kisses thus function as indexical signs of friendliness, flirtation, or relational closeness.

5.4. 2. Contextual Polysemy in Digital Space

Unlike physical kissing, which is constrained by social norms, digital kisses demonstrate semantic flexibility:

• In romantic chats → signal affection.
• In friendly messages → signal warmth.
• In ironic exchanges → signal sarcasm.
• In marketing contexts → signal emotional branding.

This polysemy shows that digital semiotics expands the interpretive range of the gesture.

5.4. 3. Cultural Variation in Digital Expression

While public physical kissing showed strong cultural variation, digital kissing demonstrated reduced cultural restriction. Even participants from lower-acceptance groups (e.g., Arabic and Kinyarwanda speakers) reported moderate comfort with digital kiss emojis.

This suggests:

• Digital mediation reduces perceived social risk.
• Online space softens traditional pragmatic boundaries.
• Global emoji systems create shared symbolic repertoires.

However, qualitative interviews indicated that in conservative contexts, digital kisses are still carefully used depending on gender and relational closeness.

5.4. 4. Semiotic Transformation: From Embodied to Virtual

From a semiotic perspective:

• Physical kiss → Iconic embodied gesture
• Emoji kiss → Symbolic-digital representation

The transformation involves a shift from tactile experience to visual symbol. Yet the underlying conceptual metaphor (AFFECTION IS CLOSENESS) remains cognitively active.

This supports multimodal discourse theory (Kress & van Leeuwen, 2006), which argues that meaning is constructed across modes (text, image, symbol).

5.4. 5. Statistical Insight

Correlation analysis revealed a positive relationship between:

• Public kissing acceptance and digital kiss usage (r = .54, p < .01).

This indicates that individuals who are more accepting of physical public affection are also more likely to use digital affectionate symbols.

However, regression analysis showed that age was a significant predictor (β = –.48, p < .01), confirming generational influence.

The findings demonstrate that kissing has transitioned from a purely embodied act to a multimodal communicative resource. In digital environments:

• It becomes less physically intimate.
• It gains pragmatic flexibility.
• It transcends certain cultural constraints.
• It reflects generational semiotic evolution.

Digital semiotics thus reveals how globalization and technology reshape affective expression while maintaining core embodied conceptual mappings.

6.     Discussion

6.1. Integration of Findings

The present study demonstrates a strong alignment between quantitative statistical patterns and qualitative insights regarding kissing across cultures and languages.

• Quantitative–Qualitative Convergence: Statistical analysis revealed that acceptance of public kissing varied significantly across language groups, with Western participants (English, French, Spanish) showing higher acceptance, while Arabic and Kinyarwanda participants reported lower acceptance. These findings correspond with qualitative observations of lexical variation and culturally embedded pragmatics, where certain societies emphasize modesty, hierarchy, and ritualized uses of kissing.
• Hierarchical Societies and Pragmatic Constraints: The negative correlation between public kissing acceptance and hierarchical or respect-oriented interpretations (e.g., “kiss the ring”) highlights the influence of social structure on embodied gestures. In societies emphasizing hierarchy or religious propriety, kissing functions more as a marker of submission or respect than romantic affection.
• Metaphorical Correlation with Cultural Narratives: The study found that metaphors of betrayal (e.g., “Judas’ kiss”) were significantly correlated with exposure to religious narratives (r = 0.48, p < .01), demonstrating that cultural storytelling and historical context shape cognitive mappings of embodied actions. Similarly, metaphors of reconciliation, finality, and love reflected shared cultural schemas, aligning with conceptual metaphor theory (Lakoff & Johnson, 1980).
• Digital Semiotics: Survey and qualitative data further revealed that digital representations of kissing (emojis , ) mediate affection in online communication, reducing cultural constraints associated with public displays. This finding illustrates the evolving semiotic system of affection where embodied gestures are translated into virtual, multimodal forms, yet retain conceptual metaphors such as AFFECTION IS CLOSENESS.

6.2. Implications for Cognitive Linguistics

The study supports several key propositions in cognitive linguistics and cultural linguistics:

• Embodiment and Metaphor Formation: Physical experience underlies metaphorical reasoning. Kissing as a physical act provides a concrete source domain for abstract mappings, such as BETRAYAL, RECONCILIATION, SUBMISSION, and FINALITY. These metaphors demonstrate that embodied gestures shape conceptual knowledge across cultures.
• Cultural Schemas Mediate Meaning: Lexical variation, pragmatic norms, and metaphorical extensions illustrate that culture structures conceptualization. For example, Kinyarwanda gusoma shows polysemy linking physical intimacy with cognitive engagement, while French la bise encodes social greeting norms. These findings indicate that metaphorical mapping is not universal but modulated by cultural experience and shared social knowledge.
• Contextual Flexibility: The study highlights that the meaning of kissing is context-dependent—romantic, hierarchical, ritual, or digital—showing that embodied gestures are cognitively flexible and culturally bounded.

6.3. Practical Implications

• Cross-Cultural Communication: Awareness of metaphorical and pragmatic divergence is essential in intercultural contexts. Misinterpretation of affectionate gestures or symbolic expressions (e.g., kissing in professional or public settings) may lead to social misunderstanding. Training programs should emphasize both embodied and linguistic-cultural dimensions of nonverbal communication.
• Digital Communication and Globalization: Digital semiotics transforms embodied expressions, allowing gestures to traverse cultural and physical boundaries. Emojis and virtual representations maintain metaphorical meaning while reducing social constraints. This has implications for designing cross-cultural communication tools, social media platforms, and educational content, particularly for younger generations whose affective expressions increasingly occur online.
• Pedagogical Applications: Findings suggest that teaching emotion, metaphor, and pragmatics in language learning or intercultural studies should integrate embodied, lexical, and digital dimensions. Educators can use examples such as the metaphors of kissing to illustrate the interaction of cognition, culture, and language.

6.4. Theoretical Synthesis

By combining statistical evidence, lexical analysis, conceptual metaphors, cultural pragmatics, and digital semiotics, this study demonstrates that kissing is a multimodal, culturally mediated communicative phenomenon. Key insights include:

1. Embodied actions are cognitively mapped into abstract social meanings.
2. Cultural schemas regulate the interpretation, appropriateness, and metaphorical extension of affection.
3. Digital environments provide novel semiotic channels, enabling global reinterpretation while preserving core metaphorical associations.

These integrated findings underscore the importance of mixed-methods research for understanding the complex interplay between embodiment, language, culture, and technology.

7. Conclusion

Kissing is a biologically universal gesture, yet its linguistic, metaphorical, and pragmatic interpretations are deeply shaped by culture. This study demonstrates that the meaning and social acceptability of kissing are influenced by multiple interrelated factors:

• Embodiment: Physical experience serves as the foundation for conceptual metaphors, linking gestures to abstract notions such as love, betrayal, reconciliation, submission, and finality.
• Cultural Norms: Societal rules, rituals, and traditions regulate both the acceptability and interpretation of kissing, with hierarchical and conservative societies favoring private or ceremonial forms of the gesture.
• Hierarchy and Power Relations: Kissing can encode submission, respect, or authority, reflecting socially structured interactions beyond romantic or affectionate contexts.
• Digital Adaptation: Online communication and digital semiotics transform embodied expressions, allowing gestures to transcend traditional cultural boundaries while retaining core metaphorical meaning.

By employing a mixed-methods approach, integrating statistical analysis, lexical study, metaphorical interpretation, cultural pragmatics, and digital semiotics, this research offers robust theoretical and empirical contributions. It highlights how embodied gestures interact with language, culture, and technology to produce rich, multi-layered meaning.

the study underscores that understanding affectionate behaviors—whether in physical or digital spaces—requires a holistic perspective that considers cognition, culture, pragmatics, and communication medium. These insights have implications for cross-cultural communication, language education, social cognition, and the design of digital affective tools.

 

Dr. Havugimana Alexis Quotes

• “Kissing is more than lips touching; it is a language that the body speaks before words form.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Across languages, a kiss is a universal sign, yet its meaning is always culturally inscribed.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Metaphors of kissing reveal that the smallest gesture carries the weight of social narratives.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Embodiment bridges the physical act and abstract thought, turning affection into a conceptual map.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Even silence speaks when a kiss crosses boundaries of language and culture.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Kissing is a prism: refracted through culture, it reflects love, respect, betrayal, and farewell.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “The lexicon of affection demonstrates that language codifies not only acts but relational values.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Public acceptance of a kiss is as much a reflection of cultural structure as of individual desire.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Digital kisses preserve the metaphorical essence of affection while transcending physical and social constraints.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Hierarchy transforms the kiss from intimacy into submission, showing the power of social coding.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Every kiss tells a story: one of closeness, negotiation, and culturally shared meaning.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Polysemy in language teaches us that intimacy and cognition are often two sides of the same symbolic act.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Metaphorical mappings of kissing illuminate the mind’s capacity to abstract from the body.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “The universality of kissing is tempered by the diversity of its interpretation.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Affection is a discourse, and the kiss is its most eloquent word.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “The body is the first linguist; the kiss is its first sentence.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “In every culture, kissing mediates between emotion, morality, and social convention.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “To study kissing linguistically is to study the intersection of cognition, culture, and communication.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Digital representations of kissing reveal how symbolic language adapts in an interconnected world.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

• “Kissing is a small act with large meanings: socially, cognitively, and linguistically.” — Dr. Havugimana Alexis

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